Arthur Belluomo
Arthur Frank Stanley Belluomo

August 18, 1991 - September 6, 2018


Arthur's Legacy


Arthur was a young man who stood on his own two feet and took on the world without fear. He challenged himself to always move forward and grasp the adventure ahead.
He was a university graduate, earning a first-class honours degree in philosophy from Nottingham University. He had a great wanderlust. At 27 he had travelled across Europe, watched the Aurora Borealis in Norway, lived in Spain, in Nepal and in South-East Asia. In New York Arthur earned a CELTA qualification, with which he taught English in Vietnam and Taiwan before travelling on to Thailand and Cambodia.
Wherever he was living, Arthur always worked hard to learn the local language, and with varying degrees of success he learned Spanish, German (he won a best student award in middle school), Arabic, Farsi and Vietnamese. He was also an aspiring artist, drawing and sketching extensively and taking classes to improve his skills. He was a prolific writer – at last count he had 9 journals - but most significantly he was a voracious reader with an extensive, eclectic library.
Arthur wanted to give so much to the world. He had registered for – and, characteristically, already begun to read towards – a Masters degree in International Relations at Northeastern University. He would certainly have made a positive contribution to the welfare of humanity, but his legacy to the world will now be spoken most eloquently in the words of those who were fortunate enough to have known and loved this gentle man.


Tributes




Arthur was a Viking and a teddy bear. He was fiercely intelligent and he was a hippie. He was a lover and a fighter and he walked like a Roman. He was a true gentleman; a gentle man, dearly loved by a vast and infinitely diverse network of people

The Arthur Belluomo Prize for Modern Foreign Languages

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On the 6th of September 2018, something terrible happened.
A light has gone out, and for many it will never be re-lit.
My Arthur. Your Arthur.
Our Arthur.
Our big, beautiful, strong, brilliant and bearded Arthur. The spark in so many eyes, the fire in so many hearts, the open ear to a cacophony of cries, always listening, and never judging.
All of us have our stories and our memories and our photographs and videos and soundbites. Please share them. Let the world lay down in sorrow, and let its walls echo with the searing, deafening loss of a man so great, so gargantuan in strength and love, that it simply could not hold him any more. This world is too dark for someone so bright as him.
The only thing that I can ask is that you give his family and closest ones the time they need to grieve. This was his worst fear – if you have questions you come to me with them. Not them. Nothing is known for certain, but that there has been a loss so great that worlds are shattered.
I was speaking to him until 1am the day he died.
And I want you to know that he was happy. That he was healthy. He had a beautiful soul sharing his life with him, and a brain filled with scenes and sights so incredible, and he had hopes for the future. He was coming home. He was due to fly the day he died, and he had plans to visit all of those who he hadn’t seen for so long. He was going to cook me his rosewater pears, and we were going to edit his pages of writing together.
There is nothing anyone can do or say to make this better, but I have done my utmost to tell as many as I can, that you didn’t find out through Facebook. Because he deserves more than a scroll. He was my library, and the forest that made the pages.
I thought that it might have sunk in by now. The amount of times I have said it. But the more I do, the more unreal it becomes. This is a dream. The longest and most terrifying dream. 

Shonie




Mate, I don't have the words to explain how much you moving on has affected me. I've been wanting to write something on your wall but no words have the power to explain how much of an influence and inspiration you were to me brother.
You are a truly rare soul mate, your inquisitiveness about life, the way you are incredibly intellectual but so low key about it, completely non judgemental and accepting, loving and loyal.
These are all things I saw in you that I want to become...

Cariem Lawrence
 

We never shared things about us on social media. Which I loved. Our time was our time but you are too special not to share with the universe. Thank you for all the jokes, all the giggles, all the games, all the teachings, all the books, all the experiences, all the adventures and SO MUCH MORE. I can never look at a supercub the same way again. You sir are a legend always. YES SON!

Asti Daries




 I miss you so much brother. My wife and I were looking forward to more Persian food in Manhattan. Someday soon brother. Someday soon..

Sinan Aladdin



Arthur from one poet lover to another. "For what is it to die but to stand naked into the wind and Melt into the sun" - still thinking of you everyday

Sarah Lin Hawkins 



Arthur I really have been putting this off for as long as i can now as everyone else is more articulate than I am (I know that would make you smile if you could see this) and secondly because It's been such a wave of emotions since I heard of your passing that I've been devastated . You were always there for me whenever I needed you and vice versa, you made me laugh daily, think about my actions when I was being too stroppy with people and always gave the best advice in such a humble and intelligent way. You never got angry even when I deserved it.
We shared so many adventures together big and small. Some of my fondest memories were of us on the day we made Swan Life together, on the lake, which later turned into our mantra for everything, I especially have a keen fondness for when we broke the air hockey at the arcade from getting such a high score as we took the kids puck who was annoying us (the machine is still broken nearly 2 years on, you'd be happy to know) and of course when we bought huge water guns and kept up the mantra of Swan Life while being menaces doing drive-bys on tourists, or doing Chi Gong on the roof of Doi Can in a storm .
You have given me some of the fondest memories and we shared so much love and happiness together. You were always full of love and kindness and I don't think I'll ever get over losing such a special friend. A truly special person who I will always treasure in my heart, and you literally were one of the smartest and funniest people I've ever known. I feel blessed to have known you. R.I.P brother as Cariem Lawrence said.
See you on the other side my White Swan. I will always love and miss you brother x
One life, Swan Life!

Joe Wood




The last few days I've been really struggling to put into words just how devastating it is to find out that someone who was such an important part of your life and had such a huge impact on your formative years isn't here any more.
Arthur was genuinely one of the best people I have ever, ever met. A hilarious, intelligent, good-natured, kind, awesome fucking hippy. Over the last 13 years there are too many amazing memories and experiences to even list. They will never be forgotten.
Just heartbroken, mate. RIP

Katie Heley




You were loved dear soul. It's been a long time dude but I will never forget you! I am so grateful you graced my life, and many others who so clearly felt your warmth

Holly Tree




Shed two tears for you.
For everything you were.
For everything the world has lost.

Ian Llewellyn



I'm incredibly sad. I'm sad for friends, I'm sad for you, but I'm mostly sad for the world. I always imagined you were out there somewhere, making people laugh and talking about philosophy, always learning and always teaching. I haven't seen you in so long, but it didn't matter, because you were never one for staying still, and you always had a story to tell. You wanted to see the world and enjoy the company of everyone you met. You were out there, doing the things you loved the most and living your life, full of discovery and adventure. But you're not in the world anymore, and I'm so sad for it. I'm sad for the people who never got to meet you, for the people you never got to leave lasting memories with, for the people who missed out on everything that you are, the happiness you left in your wake. I count myself blessed to have known you at all, even though it was brief, and I know that everyone who has ever known you feels exactly the same way. You were a force of nature, an absolute joy, a fierce friend. You truly danced like no one was watching. You were part of some of the best memories of my life. The world will miss everything you had left to give, and those who knew you will never forget everything you offered us. I loved you dearly.

Lily Pad




I still can't believe you're gone bruv!
For the short period of time that I've known you, I could tell you're one solid guy. All the adventures spent together has been dope. You were always one to show interest in the passion of others, selfless to say the least. Thank you everything you've done for us during the difficult times. You really pulled thru. Proper Hero! Thanks Arthur.
Rest In Paradise!

Matthew Little




Deeply sad to hear about Arthur's passing. Any words are redundant by now. You have a place in our hearts.
Rest in peace.

Mai Trang




I will always remember your thirst for knowledge, piercing observations, and your sassy humour. Bumping and grinding to LadySaw on Christmas eve, reading Persian poetry and arguing about consciousness, and in the tender young teens when we thought we knew it all declaring primitive anarchism over MSN. Your big fluffy face opening the door completely by surprise as we rocked up in Hanoi, and all the pastries and good long deep talks. Hard to come by these days. You were one of a kind brother, and the world will miss you. A razor sharp mind and a truly beautiful soul.

Bethany May



Arthur, though you will be missed, I know you will be ready to feast with me once more when you welcome me into the grand halls of Valholl. Rest well my friend.

Jonathan H.